Wrist & Ankle Restraints

Why choose wrist and ankle cuffs?

Their wider straps distribute pressure, so they're kinder to skin and nerves than narrow cuffs. Most have D-rings or clips, which means you can connect them to each other, to a bed system, a spreader bar or a door restraint for endless positions.

Positions to try

Start with wrists cuffed together in front. Next, try cuffing wrists to ankles while your partner kneels, or attach each limb to a corner of the bed for a classic spread-eagle. A hogtie, linking wrists and ankles behind the back, is intense and best kept short.

Fitting and safety

Fasten cuffs so you can slide one finger underneath. Avoid positions that hyperextend joints or put weight on the shoulders, and check circulation regularly. Keep scissors or a release clip nearby and never leave a restrained partner alone.

Adding sensation

Once your partner is restrained, use a feather tickler to trace slow lines along their skin, or alternate soft and firmer touches to keep them guessing.

Velcro, buckle or locking?

Velcro cuffs are the quickest to put on and take off, which makes them great for beginners and spontaneous play. Buckle cuffs give a precise, secure fit and look more classic. Locking cuffs add a padlock for a stronger sense of surrender, but always keep the key within reach.