Strapless Strap-On Dildos

How a strapless strap-on stays in place

The internal end of a strapless strap-on is shaped like a curved bulb that sits behind the pubic bone, resting against the G-spot. The wearer's pelvic floor muscles hold it in place, helped by a little friction and the angle of the toy. The firmer your pelvic floor, the more secure it feels, so kegel exercises genuinely help.

Strapless vs harness: what's the difference?

A harness holds the dildo securely and works for any wearer, but the wearer usually feels little direct stimulation. A strapless strap-on gives the wearer internal G-spot pleasure with every thrust and lets bodies press closer together, but it needs some practice and works best in certain positions. Many couples own both.

Best positions to start with

Positions where the wearer can stay low and close tend to work best: missionary with the receiver lying back, spooning, and the receiver on top facing the wearer. Avoid very vigorous thrusting at first; slow, grinding movements keep the toy in place and feel incredible for both partners.

Lube on both ends

Use water-based lube on the internal bulb as well as the shaft. Avoid silicone lube with silicone strapless toys. If the toy slips out, try a little less lube on the internal end or switch to a position with more support.

Vibrating strapless models

Some strapless strap-ons include a built-in motor that sends vibration through both ends, so the wearer and receiver feel the same buzz. They're a fantastic upgrade once you're comfortable with the basic shape.