Evolved - Giving Vibes - 5.7" Controlled Vibrating Strap-On
Basix Rubber Works - Universal Harness
Realrock - 9" Hollow Strap-on with Balls
King Cock - Elite Ultimate Vibrating Silicone Strap-On Kit
Strap-On Kits: Harness and Dildo Sets for Couples
A strap-on kit gives you everything you need for role reversal in one box: an adjustable harness and a dildo designed to fit it. No guessing whether the ring is the right size or the base will stay put, just unbox, adjust and play. Kits are the easiest way for couples of any gender to try strap-on sex, pegging or new positions together.
Our strap-on kits range from vibrating, remote controlled sets to hollow strap-ons and universal harnesses you can pair with your favourite dildo. Prefer to wear nothing at all? Try strapless strap-on dildos. Or explore every style in our main strap-ons collection.
Find the right strap-on kit
What's in a strap-on kit?
A typical kit includes an adjustable harness, usually with hip and thigh straps, an O-ring or attachment point, and one or more dildos sized to fit. Some kits add a bullet vibrator or a wireless remote for extra sensation, and premium kits come with interchangeable rings so you can swap in other dildos later.
Choosing a harness style
Jockstrap-style harnesses with two thigh straps give the most stable, controlled thrusting. Briefs-style harnesses feel more like underwear and are comfortable for longer sessions. Single-strap harnesses are quick to put on and adjust. Look for soft, adjustable straps and a buckle system that's easy to tighten without help.
Picking the right dildo size
For a first strap-on experience, choose a dildo between 5 and 6 inches long with a moderate width. Smooth shafts are easiest for beginners, especially for pegging; textured, curved or vibrating dildos add sensation once you're comfortable. Make sure the dildo has a flared base so it sits securely in the harness.
First-time tips for the wearer
Practise putting the harness on before you need it. Tighten the straps so the dildo sits snugly against the pubic bone, use plenty of lube on the dildo and let the receiving partner guide the depth and pace. Rocking your hips slowly rather than thrusting hard gives more control and comfort.
Strap-ons for every couple
Strap-on kits suit lesbian couples, straight couples exploring pegging, trans and non-binary partners and anyone curious about trying a different role. There's no right way to use one, only the way that feels good to both of you.
Strap-On Kits and Alternatives Compared
Compare kits with other strap-on options before you decide.
| Option | Includes | Best for | Beginner-friendly? | Try |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Vibrating strap-on kit | Harness, vibrating dildo, remote | Both partners feel vibration | Yes | Evolved Giving Vibes |
| Hollow strap-on | Hollow dildo and straps | Penis owners, extra size | Yes | Realrock 9" Hollow |
| Universal harness | Harness only | Using your own dildo | Yes | Basix Universal Harness |
| Strapless strap-on | Double-ended dildo | Hands-free, no straps | With practice | Fun Factory Share Lite |
| Vibrating hollow strap-on | Hollow vibrating dildo | Couples wanting size and buzz | Yes | Erection Assistant 2 7" |
