Large Dildos

Are you ready for a large dildo?

If you comfortably enjoy a 7 to 8 inch dildo with moderate girth and want more, you're probably ready. Remember that girth makes more difference than length, so step up gradually rather than jumping to the biggest size.

Warming up

Take your time: get fully aroused, use a smaller toy first and apply lots of thick lube to both you and the dildo. Breathe out as you insert and stop if you feel sharp pain.

Positions for size

Riding a suction cup dildo lets you control depth and pace, which is the most comfortable way to enjoy a large toy. Lying on your back with knees raised also helps.

Lube and care

A thicker water-based lube lasts longer and gives the most comfort; for non-silicone toys, a silicone lube works well too. Wash after use and store flat or upright so the toy keeps its shape.

Building up gradually

Size play is all about patience. Many people use a set of dildos in increasing sizes, moving to the next one only when the previous size feels easy and comfortable. Spend plenty of time on foreplay and arousal, because the body naturally relaxes and opens up when you're turned on. Never rush or push through pain; discomfort is a sign to slow down or go back a size.

Why girth matters more than length

Most of the nerve endings in the vagina and anus are near the entrance, so girth creates the most noticeable feeling of fullness. Extra length can be enjoyable, but it can also press on the cervix, which some people find uncomfortable. When choosing a large dildo, look carefully at the circumference and insertable length rather than overall length, which includes the base and balls.

Large dildos and partner play

A large dildo can add an intense new dimension to partner play. Your partner can control the depth and pace while you relax and give feedback, or you can ride a suction cup model while they watch or touch you. Agree on a simple word or signal to slow down, use plenty of thick lube and take breaks whenever you need them. Going slowly together builds trust and makes the experience far more enjoyable for both of you.