Suction Cup Dildos

How to get a strong seal

Clean and dry both the surface and the suction cup, press the base down firmly and push out any air. A drop of water on the cup can help on tiles. Suction cups work on smooth, sealed surfaces such as glass, tiles, mirrors and lacquered wood, not on fabric, grout or textured walls.

Positions to try

Stick it to the floor and ride it to control depth and pace, attach it to the shower wall and back onto it, or fix it to a smooth chair for a seated position. For partner play, the same base slips into a harness.

Choosing size and firmness

For riding, a slightly firmer dildo with a wide base is easiest to balance on. Start with 5 to 6 inches of insertable length and moderate girth. Soft dual-density toys feel realistic but may bend more when ridden.

Lube in the shower

Water washes water-based lube away quickly; a silicone lube lasts longer in the shower but should only be used with non-silicone toys. Check your dildo's material first.

Cleaning the base

Wash the shaft and suction cup with warm water and toy cleaner after every use; dust and hair stop the cup sticking. Store it upright or flat so the cup keeps its shape.

Realistic or smooth suction dildos?

Realistic suction dildos with balls give a lifelike look and feel, and the balls add stability when riding. Smooth silicone suction dildos are easier to clean and often feel more comfortable for beginners. Both stick equally well; the choice comes down to the look and texture you prefer. If you love a lifelike shape, look for models with balls and visible veins.

Using a suction dildo with a partner

A suction dildo fixed to a wall or headboard lets you enjoy double stimulation while being intimate with a partner, or lets one partner watch and tease. Many couples use the same toy in a harness for strap-on play. Because the base is wide and flat, it's comfortable against the body and stays secure in most harnesses. Talk about what you'd like to try and start slowly.

Suction cup dildos for beginners

If you're new to riding a suction dildo, start with a slim, medium-length model on a low, sturdy surface such as the floor or a smooth chair. Lower yourself slowly with plenty of lube, using your hands for balance, and let your body adjust before moving. Riding puts you in control of depth and pace, which makes it one of the most comfortable ways to explore penetration on your own.

Vibrating and remote suction dildos

Many suction cup dildos now include a vibrating motor or a wireless remote, so you can enjoy hands-free riding with an extra buzz. A partner can hold the remote while you ride, or you can keep it in your hand to change patterns as you go. Check the waterproof rating before using a vibrating model in the shower, and keep the remote dry. These designs offer the most versatility of any suction toy.