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Controlled Butt Plugs: Remote & App Control
Hand the controls to your partner, whether they're in the same room or across the country. Controlled butt plugs combine the fullness of a classic plug with vibration you operate from a wireless remote or a smartphone app, so the person wearing it never quite knows what's coming next. Every toy here is unisex.
They're perfect for date nights, teasing during foreplay and long-distance relationships. Prefer a plug without a remote? Browse all our butt plugs, or explore every anal sex toy.
Choose your control
Remote or app: which suits you?
A remote control plug is the simplest option: switch it on and hand over the remote. It works within a short range, so it's best for play at home or on a night out together. An app controlled plug pairs with your phone and lets your partner control it from anywhere with an internet connection, often with extra patterns and features.
Tips for your first time
Get comfortable wearing the plug at home before trying it anywhere else, and agree on a safe word or signal. Start on low settings. If you enjoy the feeling, there's plenty more to explore in our anal vibrators and sex toys for couples.
Lube and charging
Use a thick water-based anal lube with silicone plugs and reapply before longer wear. Charge fully before a date and keep the charging port dry when cleaning.
Ideas for playing together
Start at home: one partner wears the plug while the other controls it during foreplay, a movie or dinner. Once you're comfortable, try a discreet night out together with a remote model. For long-distance couples, schedule a video call and let your partner take over through the app. Building anticipation is half the fun, so tease with low settings before turning things up.
What to look for
Check the remote range, battery life, waterproof rating and how quiet the plug runs. A tapered shape with a comfortable neck stays secure during longer wear, and a slim, flexible base is more discreet under clothing. App models often add features like custom patterns, music sync and long-distance control.
Safety and comfort
Choose a size you already find comfortable before wearing a plug for longer periods, and always use plenty of lube. Remove it if you feel any pain or numbness. Keep the remote or phone within range and fully charged so you're never stuck mid-session.
Controlled plugs for every body
Controlled butt plugs work for people of all genders. For people with a prostate, a slightly longer plug can press on the P-spot while it vibrates, and for people with a vagina, the vibration can be felt during penetration too. A slim, tapered plug is the most comfortable for longer wear, while a bulbous shape gives a stronger feeling of fullness.
Remote vs App Control
Pick the one that matches how you like to play.
| Remote control | App control | |
|---|---|---|
| Range | Same room | Anywhere with internet |
| Setup | None, ready to use | Download the app and pair |
| Best for | Date nights, play at home | Long-distance couples |
| Try | Playboy Rim Shot | Techno Trance |