The first step in using massage candles is to create the right atmosphere. Dim the lights, play some soft music, and light your candle. The flickering light and enticing fragrance will start to set a romantic and relaxing mood. As the candle burns, it creates a pool of warm oil that is ready to be used for a sensual massage.
3. Safety First
Before you begin, it’s important to ensure safety. Always check the temperature of the melted oil to ensure it’s warm but not too hot. Remember to blow out the candle before pouring the oil to avoid any accidents.
4. The Art of Sensual Massage
Now, for the most enjoyable part: the massage. Start by slowly drizzling the warm oil onto your partner's skin. The sensation of the warm oil, combined with your touch, will be incredibly arousing. Use gentle, slow strokes to massage the oil into their skin, exploring different intimate massage techniques.
Focus on areas that are typically tense, like the shoulders and back, before moving to more sensitive areas.
5. Incorporating Massage Candles into Couples Play
Massage candles are an excellent addition to couples play. They can be a prelude to more intimate activities or a way to connect on a deeper level through touch and sensory play. The act of massaging each other can build trust and enhance intimacy, making it a perfect addition to a bondage play scenario where trust and communication are key.
6. Relaxation Techniques for Couples Massage
While erotic massage is often the goal, don't underestimate the power of relaxation. Use your massage candle to perform a couples massage that focuses on relieving stress and tension. This can be a deeply bonding experience, allowing both partners to feel cared for and relaxed. Incorporate various relaxation techniques such as long, smooth strokes and gentle kneading to help ease any muscle tension.