Strap-On Dildos

It needs a flared base or suction cup wide enough to sit behind the O-ring. All dildos in this collection meet that rule. Learn how harnesses work in Strap-Ons Unveiled.

Go smaller than you think for your first time: around 5"–6" long with moderate girth. Our guide Big or Small? How to Choose the Perfect Dildo Size explains how to measure.

Silicone is firmer, non-porous and easy to clean; dual-density realistic materials feel softer and more lifelike. Dildo Matchmaking helps you pick.

Yes, as long as it has a flared base. Choose a slimmer, tapered shape, go slowly and use plenty of lube. More in our guide to dildos.

Wash it with warm water and a toy cleaner after every use, and let it dry before storing. Wash the harness separately according to its material. Full tips in How to Clean Your Sex Toys.

Water-based lube works with every material; don't use silicone lube on silicone dildos. See The World of Lubricants.

Yes. Dildos with a suction cup base can be used on their own, by hand or stuck to a smooth surface, so they're just as useful for solo play.

Many are, as long as the base is flared or has a suction cup wide enough for the O-ring. Every fantasy dildo in this collection meets that rule.

Not necessarily, but a slimmer, smooth and slightly tapered dildo is more comfortable for anal play. Start smaller than you would for vaginal play and use plenty of lube.

Push the dildo through the harness O-ring from the front until the flared base sits snugly behind it, against the wearer's body. Then tighten the straps so the dildo sits at the right height and angle and doesn't wobble during movement. If it feels loose, try a smaller ring.

No. Every order arrives in plain, unbranded packaging with nothing on the outside that hints at what's inside.