Cosmo Bondage - Ball Gag - Rainbow
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Gags: Silence, Surrender and Intense Submission
A gag takes away your partner's ability to speak, shifting the scene into a deeper level of submission. Muffled moans, heavy breathing and body language take over, and many people find the sense of helplessness incredibly arousing. Gags range from beginner-friendly silicone designs to classic ball gags.
Shop silicone lips gags and ball gags from Sex & Mischief and Cosmo Bondage, or find gags inside complete bedroom bondage kits. Explore more sensory toys in blindfolds, masks and gags.
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Types of gags
Open-mouth and lips gags hold the mouth open without filling it, making them the most comfortable for beginners. Ball gags place a ball between the teeth and are the most iconic style. Breathable ball gags have holes that let air through and reduce drooling.
Gag safety
Never use a gag if your partner has a cold, blocked nose or breathing difficulties. Fit the strap snugly but not tightly, keep sessions short, and have a non-verbal stop signal agreed in advance, such as dropping a held object or snapping fingers. Remove the gag immediately if your partner seems distressed.
Drool is normal
Gags make it hard to swallow, so drooling is expected. Keep a towel nearby, take regular breaks and choose medical-grade silicone that's easy to wash.
Combining gags with other play
A gag works beautifully with a blindfold and light restraints for a complete sense of surrender. Hoods add even more intensity but are best for experienced players.
Hoods with gags
Some bondage hoods include an open mouth so a gag can be worn underneath. This is an advanced combination for experienced players only and needs constant supervision and a reliable non-verbal signal.
Introducing a gag gently
Before using a gag during a scene, let your partner try it on for a minute while you talk. Check the fit, practise the stop signal and make sure they can breathe easily through the nose. Familiarity removes anxiety and makes the real scene far more enjoyable.
Gags Compared
Choose by comfort and intensity.
| Gag | Style | Intensity | Beginner-friendly? | Try |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Silicone lips gag | Open mouth | Medium | Yes | Sex & Mischief Silicone Lips Mouth Gag |
| Ball gag | Ball | High | With practice | Cosmo Bondage Ball Gag Rainbow |
| Kit gag | Ball | Medium | Yes | Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit |