The Pleasure Glossary: Sexy Terms Explained

Welcome to the wild, wonderful world of pleasure. Whether you're a curious beginner, a kinky adventurer, or someone who just wants to finally understand what the heck a "stroker" is, you've landed in the right place.

This glossary is your flirty, fun, and totally non-judgy guide to the sexy terms that float around adult stores, pop up in spicy group chats, or mysteriously appear in your partner’s browser history. (No shame—we see you, and we love you.)

So let’s dive in and decode the delicious language of pleasure. Your journey to becoming a fluent sex-toy whisperer starts now.

Small but oh-so-mighty, bullet vibrators are pocket-sized powerhouses designed for clitoral stimulation. They’re discreet, travel-friendly, and perfect for slipping into your purse—or your partner’s hand during foreplay.

🔗 *Try: *Bullet Vibrators

Read More: Buzzing with Pleasure: A Complete Guide to the Exciting World of Bullet Vibrators

C – Cock Ring

This isn’t jewelry you wear to brunch. Cock rings are worn around the base of the penis (sometimes the testicles too) to help maintain erections and delay orgasm. Some even vibrate, which makes them the true MVPs of partner play.

🔗 *Explore: *Cock Rings

Read More: Say yes to Cock ring!

D – Dildo

The classic. A dildo is a sex toy designed for penetration. It doesn’t vibrate, but it does come in just about every shape, size, and material you can imagine—from realistic to rainbow unicorn sparkle.

🔗 *Find Yours: *Dildos

Read More: A Guide to Dildos, Their Usage, Care, and Lubricants

E – Edging

A tantalising practice of bringing yourself (or your partner) close to orgasm and then backing off. Rinse and repeat. It builds intensity and can lead to mind-blowing climaxes. It’s like the rollercoaster you never want to end.

An erogenous zone located a few inches inside the vagina, on the front wall. When stimulated (especially with a curved toy), it can lead to deep, toe-curling orgasms. Some say it’s a myth; others call it the Holy Grail.

🔗 *Stimulate It: *G-Spot Vibrators

Read More:

• Vibrator Virgins: Your Friendly Guide to First-Time Use
• Unlocking the Mystery: How to Find the G-Spot

H – Harness

Not just for horses. A harness is used to hold a strap-on dildo in place. Perfect for pegging, role reversal, or simply exploring new kinds of intimacy.

🔗 *Try It: Strap-Ons

Read More:

• Why Pegging Can Be a Game-Changer in the Bedroom
• Strap-Ons Unveiled: A Beginner’s Guide to Harness Adventures

Another name for a stroker or male masturbator. These soft, textured sleeves add an extra dimension to solo pleasure. It’s like a spa day for your penis.

🔗 *Stroke It: *Male Masturbators

Read More:

• Exploring Strokers and Male Masturbators

K – Kegel Balls

Also known as Ben Wa balls, they’re inserted into the vagina to help strengthen pelvic floor muscles.

Bonus: they can feel really good while you're doing your pelvic workouts.

🔗 *Try It: Kegel Balls

Read More:

• Kegel Balls Benefits
• Strengthening Your Pelvic Floor: A Guide to Sexual Wellness.

A general term for adult toys designed to enhance solo play, especially for penis-owners. Pocket pussies, strokers, and sleeves all fall under this category. Your hands will never feel lonely again.

🔗 *Try One: Masturbators

Read More: Dive into the Fun-Filled Universe of Pocket Pussies

N – Nipple Clamps

A little pressure goes a long way. These toys pinch the nipples to create sensitivity and enhance pleasure. Some even vibrate. Ouch? Nah—mmm, yes.

🔗 *Pinch It: Nipple Clamps

Read More: A Pinch of Pleasure: Exploring the Sensual World of Nipple Clamps

O – Orgasm Control

Techniques or tools used to delay or intensify orgasms. Includes edging, chastity play, or simply saying “Not yet!” It’s about control—and the delicious tension that comes with it.

🔗 *Why Not: Better Sex

Not exactly a toy, but let’s be real—sometimes you want fast and fun. Toys that are easy to use and get the job done quickly (hello, bullet vibrator) are perfect for a sexy sprint.

R – Rabbit Vibrator

The Beyoncé of vibrators. Simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Two motors. One wild ride. If you know, you know.

🔗 *Hop to it: *Rabbit Vibrators

Read More:

• First Time I Used a Rabbit Vibrator: A Personal Journey by Jess
• Top Picks: Best Rabbit Vibrators for Beginners

S – Stroker

A stroker is a type of masturbator that mimics intercourse using soft, textured sleeves. Some are manual, some vibrate, and some even suck. Technology is beautiful.

🔗 *Stroke It: *Male Sex Toys

T – Thrusting Vibrator

Tired of doing all the work? These vibrators move in and out on their own, mimicking the motion of penetration. It’s like having a very enthusiastic (and tireless) lover.

🔗 *Browse All: *Thrusting Vibrators

U – UV Sterilizer

Keeping your adult toys clean is crucial. UV sterilizers use light to kill bacteria—making sure your pleasure doesn’t come with unwanted guests.

Big, bold, and powerful. Vibrating Wands deliver deep vibrations and are amazing for external stimulation. Pro tip: great for sore shoulders and orgasms.

🔗 *Wave It: *Wand Vibrators

Read More: Wave of Pleasure: Unveiling the Magic of Vibrating Wands

X – X-Rated

Okay, we’re stretching with this one. But let’s face it: if you’re shopping here, you’ve got a love for the naughty. And we’re so here for it.

Y – Yoni Egg

Used in some wellness circles to connect with the pelvic floor and promote vaginal health. Controversial? A bit. Sexy? Depends who you ask.

Z – Zzz (Afterglow)

Because after all the buzz, vibration, and sweet release—you deserve a nap. Or cuddles. Or both.

Stay Curious, Stay Kinky

And there you have it—your A-to-Z crash course in the language of pleasure. Whether you're vibing with a vibrator, slipping into vibrating panties, stroking it out with a masturbator, or dipping your toes into bondage with a flogger, there’s always something new to learn (and try).

We believe sex education should be fun, accessible, and full of laughter—because pleasure isn’t just powerful, it’s personal. And hey, if your favorite toy happens to be a rabbit vibrator that makes your toes curl and your heart sing, you’re doing it right.

💖 Bookmark this page. Revisit it when you're feeling curious. And don’t forget to browse our ever-growing range of deliciously naughty adult toys designed to make your playtime unforgettable.

Ready to buzz, pulse, and purr your way to bliss?

Explore, experiment, and most importantly—enjoy.

— With love and lube,

Team Flirty Bay