Anal Sex Toys

Any toy designed to be used safely for anal stimulation: butt plugs, anal beads, anal vibrators, anal dildos and prostate massagers. What they all share is a flared base or a handle, so they can't slip inside. They're for everyone, solo or with a partner. If you're just starting out, our Essential Guide to Anal Sex for Beginners covers preparation, relaxation and technique step by step.

A small, smooth silicone butt plug with a wide flared base. Silicone is soft, non-porous and easy to clean, and a small plug lets you get used to the sensation without any pressure. Use plenty of lube and go slowly. Read How to Use a Butt Plug before your first time.

The anus doesn't lubricate itself, so lube isn't optional. Choose a thicker formula and reapply as often as you need. Water-based lube works with every toy material and is easy to clean up; silicone lube lasts longer but shouldn't be used with silicone toys because it can damage their surface. Browse our anal lubes for formulas made for anal play.

The prostate sits a few centimetres inside the rectum, on the side towards the belly. Prostate massagers are curved to press gently on it, which a straight toy can't do nearly as well, and many also have an external arm for the perineum. Learn more in Prostate Massagers: A Guide to Intense Male Pleasure.

No, it's a personal choice. Many people feel more relaxed after a quick rinse with plain lukewarm water, but it isn't required. If you do douche, do it shortly before play and not every day, as over-douching can irritate the delicate lining.

Yes, as long as you use a fresh condom on the toy for each person, or wash it thoroughly with warm water and toy cleaner between users. Never move a toy from anal to vaginal use without cleaning it first, to avoid spreading bacteria.

Wash them after every use with warm water and a mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner, then let them dry completely before storing. Silicone, glass and metal toys are non-porous and the easiest to keep hygienic. Store each toy separately so silicone surfaces don't touch and degrade.